How often do we find ourselves repeating the same relationship mistakes, feeling stuck, or fearing the idea of starting over?
If you've ever questioned why you keep attracting the same kind of partner or why certain behaviors trigger deep emotional responses, you're not alone.
On this episode of The You World Order Showcase Podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with Junie Moon, a Love Coach and Women's Empowerment Leader, who helps women break free from past relationship baggage and unleash their most fabulous, true selves.
She teaches women how to fall in love with who they are, which naturally leads to attracting their divine right partner.
Junie is also the host of the Midlife Love Out Loud Podcast, where she shares powerful tools to help women create deep, meaningful relationships—starting with themselves.
💡 Why We Keep Repeating Relationship Patterns
Many of us walk into relationships unknowingly carrying unconscious beliefs that shape how we give and receive love.
Junie calls this shadow work—the process of uncovering hidden fears, outdated beliefs, and emotional wounds that influence our choices.
She shares her personal journey of being in a 20-year marriage where she felt unheard and unfulfilled, leading her to micromanage every aspect of her life.
It wasn’t until she hit 200 pounds and felt completely lost that she realized something deeper was at play—her fear of rejection, low self-worth, and a deeply ingrained need for external validation.
Through shadow work, she found her voice, reclaimed her self-worth, and developed healthy boundaries that changed the way she approached love and relationships.
But even after leaving that marriage, she still had to navigate the dating world, making mistakes along the way before finally crafting a powerful system to help women attract their next-level love—one built on authenticity, self-love, and aligned energy.
💔 Why Staying in the Wrong Relationship Hurts More Than Leaving
For generations, society has pushed the idea that relationships must last forever. But is that always true?
Junie challenges this outdated belief and explains that we are not the same people we were 10, 20, or 30 years ago—so why do we expect relationships to always remain the same?
One of the biggest reasons women stay in unfulfilling relationships is fear:
✔ Fear of being alone
✔ Fear of starting over
✔ Fear of repeating past mistakes
✔ Fear of what others will think
She explains that women often sabotage themselves by staying in relationships that no longer serve them, simply because they don't want to face the unknown.
But the truth is, every moment you spend in a relationship that doesn’t support your highest self is a moment lost from the life you deserve.
🛑 Familiar ≠ Healthy
One of the biggest mistakes people make in relationships is confusing comfort with compatibility. Just because something feels familiar doesn’t mean it’s right for you.
Junie shared how many women unconsciously gravitate toward partners who remind them of past wounds—not because they are the best fit, but because the dynamic is familiar.
Instead of consciously choosing a partner who aligns with their present and future self, they are subconsciously choosing someone who aligns with their past traumas.
Key takeaway? You need to unpack your patterns before jumping into a new relationship. Otherwise, you risk repeating the same story with a different face.
🔄 The Power of Shadow Work & Rewiring Relationship Patterns
So how do you break free from self-sabotage and unconscious relationship patterns?
Junie emphasizes the importance of shadow work, which involves:
🔹 Uncovering your deep-rooted fears about love and worthiness
🔹 Recognizing the unconscious beliefs that hold you back
🔹 Learning how to attract aligned partners rather than repeating toxic cycles
🔹 Rewiring your inner critic and self-sabotaging behaviors
She explains how unhealed wounds create triggers, causing us to react instead of responding in relationships.
For example, if you find yourself getting upset when a partner is lazy or doesn’t show enough ambition, ask yourself:
❓ Is this about them, or is this about something within me that I haven’t healed?
More often than not, the things that trigger us in others are reflections of unresolved wounds within ourselves.
✨ Finding Next-Level Love Starts with You
Junie helps women navigate both leaving relationships and starting new ones—but she makes it clear that next-level love starts with YOU.
💡 Before you look for a partner, ask yourself:
✔ What parts of myself do I need to heal first?
✔ Am I choosing from self-love or from fear of being alone?
✔ What are the patterns I keep repeating in relationships?
✔ What kind of relationship truly supports my highest self?
She encourages women to put a stake in the ground for what they truly desire—whether that’s deeper intimacy with a current partner, or the courage to step into the dating world with a new sense of self-worth.
And the best part?
This work isn’t just about romantic relationships.
When you do this deep healing work, it transforms every relationship in your life—including the one with yourself.
🎁 Want to Discover What’s Blocking You in Love? Take Junie’s Free Love Quiz!
Junie has created a powerful “Love Avatar Quiz” to help women identify the unconscious patterns that may be blocking them from love.
💖 Take the quiz here: 👉 Discover Your Love Avatar
After the quiz, you’ll receive a custom report revealing your strengths, your blind spots, and next steps to help you attract the love you deserve.
You’ll also be invited to a complimentary Love Breakthrough Session where Junie will help you craft a roadmap to your ideal relationship—whether you’re looking to deepen an existing one or attract something new.
🎧 Listen to the Full Episode!
This episode is filled with powerful insights on relationships, self-worth, and healing. If you’ve ever struggled with love, dating, or feeling confident in your relationships, this is an episode you don’t want to miss.
💬 What was your biggest takeaway from this conversation? Have you ever recognized patterns in your relationships that you needed to break? Share in the comments!
✨ If you found this valuable, share this post with a friend who needs to hear it. Let’s help more women step into their power and embrace next-level love!
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